Problem in Real Life

[Devinci]

Best advice I can give comes in the form of two words : Ethical Egoism...

It's all about you babe, no matter what anyone says. If you wanna hate, hate for god's sake. If you wanna feel love, get in their faces, make yourself feel loved. If you wanna sit in your room and eat ice cream while listening to Garth Brooks music and watching Moulin Rouge...More power to you.

I think that's the downfall of many people nowadays, no one realizes...it's all about you...(and you, and you and you...you get the picture)

I'm NOT saying become egotistical, I'm saying fall in love with yourself

God I'm Awesome!!

[Albus]

The most important thing is: do what you like to do !

[Lizzy Bennet]

Sometimes, I think I do have some mental problem and to be truthful i'm not really the happy going type like I'm in here. I think I'm lying to myself here. I have the feeling that i hated 99% population of this world. I hated people before I even know them for some reasons, but after i talked to them and they all nice then i'll like them. That's how I am, I have no idea why. It's like I can't control of what I'm feeling. I never have short temper or easy to be p***d at, but I can get annoyed really easily. I don't like the life I'm living right now, probably b/c of my parents are the reason that holding me back from I rather living in Africa and starve to death than going to school here(US, I'm not African-American by the way) and going to the same thing everyday for 12 years of education.

Sighs, The Circle of Life

Anybody having mental problem in real life? Feel free to let it all out.
I take it after Lizzy since she's so out and open

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Being a teenager is never easy. That sounds simple to say, but it's true...I lived it. And that's part of my part of my point...I lived it and I'm telling the tale now. That doesn't mean it wasn't grueling or totally confusing most of the time, but I did, in fact, survive, as I am sure you will as well.

Sometimes, at 25, I find myself being too self-critical...sometimes, you can simply over-analyze who you are. Particularly when I was a teen, there was a recurring theme of "Who am I?" Now, don't mistake me, at 25, I have more wisdom, insight, and self-confidence that enables to answer that question with more certainty, but by NO means am I, at 25, fully sure of all the possiblities nor do I have all the answers! Life really isn't a destination, but a journey...you just keep moving forward, smelling the roses along the way.

I know that may sound corny, but it's true...I feel (and of course, it's my opinion...that and some pocket change can buy you a donut! hehe) you're being too hard on yourself Huffleduck...I'd be surprised if you told me, as a teen, that you had it all sorted out and never felt moody...I'd wonder if you had hormones and were human! It's really natural...it's not always fun feeling like you're so many different people, given the situation, but at the same time, it's all part of learning more about who you are. And really, even as you get older and gain more experience and grow more at ease with yourself, you still don't have all the answers, but I can certainly say, I don't feel as unsure/moody as I used to.

Gee, I hope this is helping...I'm trying to say that nothing you wrote, Huffleduck, surprised me...in fact, it's totally relatable and understandable! My best advice is to focus on your goals and dreams and not let people or your own self-doubts deter you...life is never static...unless you choose to stay in one spot, people and situations come and go...you have the power to make your life what you want...it may not always go your way, but you ultimately make choices for yourself and for who you want to be. I wish you all the best! It's going to be ok...just give yourself time and take time out to enjoy life they way YOU like to. *hug*


~ Lizzy

[HuffleDuck]

Oh thank you everyone.. i guess im feeling like that b/c mostly the school. When i take the hard classes, i were never able get a good grade in there. and like in 9th grade(my worse year ever) was b/c i keep failing the geometry and biology test. . only a few times were i able to pass it or get an A on it... And b/c of that my parents have been on me all summer long. I was going crazy that summer and i was so mad i burnt all my awards i got from middle school and throwing everything away.

And part of hating everyone cause i really love nature and can't stand it when i see destruction everywhere, garbage and pollution around the globe. I really hated it when G.W. Bush became the president. he wanted to drill oil in Arctica, but so glad the Senate declined his request.