Txt advice (mobile phone)

[han lin]

ok long story.
( i always start posts. i may be the most problematic among us)
a while ago i heard a rumour that someone i know was gay with a mate of a mate.

i txt my mate to see if it was true. and he said NO. and then he said by the way *lou* says hi.

(lou being the one i didn' know if she was gay) and so i was very apologetic but she was fine with it and then bean txting me)

and recently she txt me a lot. and i don;t know if i am being paranoid or not but the last txt she sent me was

"do you like her? i do too. are you in bed? if you txt back 2nite then what do you like to be called. if not then goodnight x"

do you think she is just being casual?. i don't know if she is gay and it doesn't bother me if she is ( my best friend is) but i'm not. my m8 josh has been teasing me all day and at the start i was like whatever but now i might be letting my paranoia get away from me.

ahh

[Beccaroo]

I think she might fancy you a bit.

[Mint]

Is she your best friend?

Cause
a)she is making fun of your fear of her being gay
b)she *likes* you
c)she is afraid that you will stop talking to her, so she is working extra hard to keep the friendship up

Don't act right away, you need more clues. Just keep those three options in mind.

By the way, if I were you - I would feel paranoid too, your reaction is quite normal.

[Willow]

Mint is totally right.
you should wait for more signs.Try to clear your thoughts.
I know it is easy to say and a little bit paranoia is not that bad and totally normal but try to think about it without drowning in your confusion.

[Neo]

Do not draw conclusions so quicly, only remember mad-eyes advice "Constant Vigilance" (and take Mint options in count)

[Holly Golightly]

Mint's rightonthe ball with the three options! If it was me, and I was totally sure it was the first one, and they were just muching around, I'd muck around back, but then the prob woudl be if there is also a bit of serious flrting in the txts... she might take your mucking around the wrong way...

make sense?

[han lin]

yeah thanks, i have taken in what you said. she isn't my best friend i've only spoken to hr about twice.

She is a quite scary person scary as in starey ( she stares a lot)

but its study leave so i shouldn't see her for a good long while.

no more txts as yet. i think she was just trying to be chummy.