Sonkem, you sound just like my dad! (he's one of the biggest tolkien freaks I've ever met, including you guys!)
he was really disappointed about the ents and faramir, too... and i was as well! the elves at helms deep didn't really bother me, though. faramir was the worst.
we just bought the TTT DVD (which is what inspired this topic
Lizzy, I don't think you're really in the minority for liking TTT better. perhaps on this site, but most of my friends like it better, too. I think I just didn't like it because they changed so much. I am really looking forward to RotK though. It looks (from the preview) better than the first two.
The movies are wonderful, i think basically the best job that could be done was done. but, nothing can beat the books (in my opinion). just the depth that Tolkein went to, its hard to put that on screen. the stories are so complex i don't think movies can capture the "particular charm" as gecko put it.

i want to go, though.